What can I do about Premature ejaculation!!?!?
Please someone help, I’m 16 and I started having sex with my girlfriend that I’ve been having for about a year. And every time we do it, I always ejaculate within like 30 secs of penetration. I even used a condom that supposedly contain a small desensitizing chemical but not much changed. I feel like an idiot every time and i feel so embarrass that i can’t satisfy her. She tries to be understanding and cheer me up but I know in the inside she’s disappointed. It really puts me down. To make things worse, everyone I know sees me as a really sex driven person by the way I used to act, and now to find out that I can’t even last a minute is very stressful and making me go crazy and even little depressed. And now recently i feel like I’m losing my sex drive maybe since I’m now feeling depressed. Thus I feel like it’s harder for me to get an erection! This is all just very overwhelming and making my life miserable. Also btw when i was younger i used to masturbate a lot nd i did cum lik in 2 m
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what can i do about premature ejaculation?
i have a girlfriend and lately i have bee n to ffraid to have sex. i feel like even when i am by myself i dont last long at all. i want to please her but i feel like it is impossible. is there anything that can help?
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curious in alabama March 4th
Strengthening your pc muscles (these are the ones that you use to stop urinating) can help prolong sex. You can also ‘workout’ and build stamina with masturbation. You can train yourself to prolong sex by learning when to back off and when to push ahead again. You can find some of this info at jackinworld.com or even in men’s health magazine.
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CWV-Bavaria March 4th
Masturbate to orgasm just prior to having sex.
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Dr. Mojo M March 4th
Hi,
Yes The following techniques may be beneficial in delaying ejaculation:
The "stop and start" method – in this method, the man learns to recognise the stage after which he cannot control ejaculation. The treatment method trains the person to remove the stimulus just before that stage is reached so that the urge to ejaculate is controlled. For example, when during masturbation, the man reaches a point just before ejaculating, he stops the stimulus until he starts losing the erection. Once the stage is past, he can resume the activity. This process is repeated again and again until the individual is able to delay ejaculation till the time he wishes. This method called the ‘Masters and Johnson method’, is most effective when the help of the partner is sought during actual intercourse.
The squeeze technique – in this method, the partner gently squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of ejaculation thereby "cancelling" the orgasm. This process can be continued until the couple decides mutually to reach the climax.
Desensitising creams and gels are available in the market that reduce the sensitivity of the penis and help men reach climax later. Some men also feel that condoms reduce the sensations and, in addition to providing safer sex, help them last longer.
You can also experiment with sexual positions as some positions offer more control than others and may help to delay ejaculation.
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Imprint January 16th
hold it in
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riktik93 January 16th
PRACTICE AND MORE EXCERSISE
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CLICKER12US January 16th
sounds like a major problem buddy
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peaco1000 January 16th
Put a poster of Margeret Thacher on your ceiling
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BigMaMa January 16th
absolutly nothing, you cant do anything about it.
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Sunny January 16th
Ejaculate before having sex. It will relieve the tension, allow you to focus on pleasing your mate and enable you to perform much longer. Go tiger!!
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Durian January 16th
Kegel exercises for men do help. What helped me was a book called Sexual Solutions by Michael Castleman. Explained that premature ejaculation was merely something you had trained yourself to do when mas tur bating as a teenager, and you could train yourself out of it as well. The book gives you advise on how to train yourself to be in control more.
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risky_1986 January 16th
nothin much,…. u can try practisin to hold it in u know?
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Derek S March 4th
ok calm donw i ejaculate early but its not extreme, its not an orgasm jsut take a 30 second breather and jump back in, not immediatly, your penis head gets that really sensitive feelin and its like aurgh!
AND SLOW DONW AT FIRST, MAKE IT PASSIONATE OR GET THICKER CONDOMS SO YOU GET LESS FEELING IT WORKS **::TRUST THIS 14 YEAROLD::**
Listen to the dude under this answer too thats a good idea ill try that.
Can i get a best answer bro?
vernathome March 4th
try masturbating before your date the second and third erections always last longer.
Randall March 4th
Young and so easily excited. Try to bring her to orgasm before you enter. Then if you loose it quickly oh well enjoy.
MikeJones March 4th
first do this:
she takes clothes off…..
You feel her…..
you rub her…..
you eat her….
you kiss….
you have sex….
by then she will orgasm.
also slow down and take like a 15 second brake and smack her ass or kiss her…….
All that combined and some other stuff I didnt mention (use google) will make it better.
instinct March 4th
Stop having sex! your only 16. your going to end up sorry when she gets pregnant.
gypsyveg March 4th
In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.
Some helpful techniques include the following:
Masturbate an hour or so before having sex.
The "stop and start" method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
The "squeeze" method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
The Don March 4th
you are moving to quick man.
SLOW THINGS DOWWWWWN!!
Try just touching her first and playing around before you just right in it! HA!
Dont knwo if this will work for you, but have her get on top.
I last way longer if the girl is on top!!
ALSO, you can masturbate before she comes over…then by the time you two have sex…you would have already got the first one out of the way!
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