What can be done about premature ejaculation? Guys I need your help on this one!?

7 Responses to What can be done about premature ejaculation? Guys I need your help on this one!?

1. ticleve1 says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   Get home sooner.
2. Paramedic says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   OK…Go to the doctor and see if S/he will prescribe ZOLOFT . After about 3 weeks it should slow down the ejaculation process. The medication dose may have to be adjusted, but there’s a good chance that this will work.

   Paramedic in SC
3. The Rabbi says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   Premature ejaculation isn’t your problem. Premature SEX is the real problem.

   Romeo is getting himself all worked up over what is going to happen for him. He doesn’t give one hoot about you enjoying yourself.

   You will never enjoy lovemaking untill you are older. You are doomed to mediocrity till you are older and can attract more mature men.
4. Good Deeds says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   Kegel exercises, proper diet, drink water.
5. dlmrgnk says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   You and your guy might check out this web site: http://www.sexhealth.org/problems/premature.shtml
6. sashali says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   There are products you can get at the drug store which numb the penis. One is called "Prolong", there are many others which contain benzocaine and some with all natural ingredients. Also search the web for techniques to help control his orgasm. Many times the more you have sex, the longer a man is able to last. So increase sexual activity and hopefully this will work.
7. chloe b says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   Independent scientific studies (Rutherford University), have proven that Last-Longer, increase your stamina, and give you the ability to totally satisfy your lover for longer, and cure you permanently… 9 of the 10 subjects were completely cured of the problem after a 6 month course. Last Longer is
   -Non-hormonal herbal therapy.
   -Acts locally on the sex organs.
   -Regulates process of ejaculation.
   -Acts through neuro-endocrine pathway.
   -Acts on the high centers of emotion in the brain.
   Medical treatment for premature ejaculation includes several options. Any serious primary medical condition (eg, angina) should be treated; for the purpose of the following discussion, the male is assumed to be healthy and premature ejaculation is assumed to be his only problem. In addition, any accompanying erection problem can be treated with various methods with excellent success (see Erectile Dysfunction) and thus, only passing reference is made to treatment of erectile dysfunction (ED) that may accompany the premature ejaculation problem.

   * Including the female partner as much as possible in the treatment and counseling sessions is important to achieve the best outcome.

   * The first step for treatment of premature ejaculation is to relieve any underlying performance pressure on the male.

   o Assuming that premature ejaculation occurs when intercourse is attempted, instruct the couple that intercourse should not be attempted until premature ejaculation is treated. The male may use manual stimulation, oral sex, or other means to satisfy the female partner in the meantime.

   o If the male always experiences ejaculation with initial sexual excitement or early foreplay, this is a serious problem and probably indicates primary premature ejaculation (the history should reveal this), which then most likely requires treatment in conjunction with a mental health care professional. These more difficult cases should be screened out.

   * The couple should then be instructed on sexual therapy, such as the stop-start or squeeze-pause technique popularized by Masters and Johnson.

   o The female partner should slowly begin stimulation of the male and should stop as soon as he senses a feeling of excessive excitement that may lead to ejaculatory inevitability.

   o Then, she should administer a firm compression of the penis just behind the glans, pressing mainly under the penis. This should be uncomfortable but not painful.

   o Stimulation then should begin again after the male has a feeling that the ejaculation is no longer imminent.

   o The process should be repeated and practiced at least 10 or more times.

   o Gradually, most males find this technique helps decrease the impending inevitable need to ejaculate.

   o After a period of practicing this method, the couple can sit facing each other, with the woman’s legs crossing on top of the male’s legs. She can stimulate him by manipulating his penis close to, then with friction against, her vulval area. Each time he senses excessive excitement, she can apply the squeeze and stop all stimulation until he calms down enough for the process to be repeated.

   o Finally, coitus may be attempted, with the female partner in the superior position so that she may withdraw immediately and again apply a squeeze to remove his urge to climax.

   o Most couples find this technique to be highly successful. It can also help the female partner to be more aroused and can shorten her time to climax because it constitutes a form of extended foreplay in many cases.

   * Another therapeutic modality is the use of desensitizing cream for the male.

   o In Korea and other areas of the Far East, SS Cream (a combination of 9 ingredients, mainly herbal) has been shown to desensitize the penis, decrease the vibratory threshold, and help men with premature ejaculation to significantly delay their ejaculatory response.

   o Unfortunately, SS Cream is not yet approved by the US Food and Drug Administration (FDA), but simple combinations of lidocaine cream or related topical anesthetic agents can be used with similar effects and they are safe as long as the patient has no history of allergy to the substance.

   * If the male is relatively young and he can achieve another erection in a few minutes following an episode of premature ejaculation, he may find that his control is much better the second time.

   o Some therapists advise young men to masturbate (or have their partner stimulate them rapidly to climax) 1-2 hours before sexual relations are planned.

   o The interval for achieving a second climax often includes a much longer period of latency, and the male can usually exert better control in this setting.

   o In an older man, such a strategy may be less effective because the older man may have difficulty achieving a second erection after his first rapid sexual release. If this occurs, it can damage his confidence and may result in secondary impotence.

   * The most effective pharmacologic modality found to aid men with premature ejaculation is a drug from the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) class, drugs which are used normally as antidepressants in the clinical setting.

   o Some tricyclic antidepressants with SSRI-like activity also achieve the same result.

   o Many of these agents have been found to have, as a side effect, a tendency to cause both male and female patients to experience a significant delay in reaching orgasm.

   o For this reason, medications with SSRI side effects have been used in men who experience premature ejaculation.