I have been sexually active since 23, I’m 26. I probably had sex about 40 times. Most of these were casual relationships or one night stands and were performed after heavy drinking. I used a condom on ALL the encounters. I used to come after about 5-10 minutes, which I think is normal. But if I had been drinking heavily I could go on without achieving orgasm – I could last 40minutes or more. Now I have found someone I love and we had our first encounter a few days ago. I lasted 10sec. We did it on two other occasions and I lasted less than a minute each tme. This time I used no condom.
1. Am I coming early because there’s no condom and its more sensitive.
2. Is the absence of alcohol the cause. Someone said alcohol makes you last
3. Am I just anxious? Lack of ‘dutch courage’ since I’m doing it sober for the first time?
4. What’s my best chance. My ego, self esteem have dropped. Am I ‘useless’
5. Women – if you love him but he isn’t good in bed will you leave/cheat him? Help
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- How do i prevent my boyfriend from having a premature ejaculation
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- premature ejaculation when sober
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1) yes
2) yes,alcohol is a depressant
3) yes, and with some1 u care about and that more Xciting
4) U ur just need 2 pactice retriant which u will learn over time. U can do this by masturbating till ur but 2 cum and stopping.
5)Yes, I would leave or cheat. Probally cheat. If u don’t learn 2 control this sex bcums 1 sided, and makes ur partner feel like her pleasure doesn’t matter.
Question for u, does she have a orgasim?(maunal mastrbation or oral b 4 u 2 have sex?) Try it will a comdom. Ur can buy creams to numb ur penis some. U can also slow down and just kiss or switch 2 giving her oral sex when u start 2 feel like ur ready 2 come. Masturbate a few hours b 4 u r gonna c her.
First off I would like to say you F***ing idiot why would you go and stick your tool in uncharted territory unprotected. Your worried about premature ejaculation. Keep up this kind of behavior and you wont have to worry about it. You’ll have more to worry about like aids or some other sh**!
Im the same way exactly, i last a few minutes when sober but not long enough, when drunk i cant barely get off anymore, its fun but it last way to long haha, sobs is just practice and do wear a condom until your used to sober sex to help desensitize you, remember when your pissed shit dont work the same. And what i noticed is dont try to hold it back by not thinking about it, thats what tenses you up and it makes shit happen fast, it seems if you just giver and enjoy it youll think less about the end result, youll relax and can control it way more, AND THINKING ABOUT BASEBALL DOESNT WORK HAHA
lasting 5-10mins is consider normal and lasting 40mins is fantastic. but lasted only 10sec will piss the women off. your questions
1. most likely
2. i believe so
3. could be
4. try doing it with her after drinking and see what’s her reaction.
5. i will not leave or cheat him but have to DIY to satisfy myself. women still prefer men to hold longer.
Well honey let’s take this one at a time, shall we?
1) I won’t say yes but I won’t say no either. I do know of some men where not having a condom has also resulted in the same problem, but I know plently of others where it hasn’t been an issue.
2) Yes alcohol is a major contribution to this and therefore you should cut it out and try to learn to do without it. You may see it like a benefit, however, it truly is a burden to most women for a man to keep pounding away for 40mins.
3) Nerves, lack of commitment, and just inexperience can also be a factor. What makes you afraid to have sex sober? It feels so much better and the intensity of it are so much more awesome.
4) If I love him and he isn’t good, no I will not cheat on him. I will stand by and try to encourage and teach him so that hopefully the sex will improve. Will I stand by him forever if the sex isn’t good? No because even though that isn’t the most important part of a relationship, it does play a part and if you aren’t sexually satisfying your partner, that’s what leads to the desire to cheat. I am not that kind of person, so I’d rather end it first.
Of course you aren’t lasting as long without a condom. Duh???
I think you should jack off before she comes to visit, it’ll make you last longer, you beast of man!
man that sucks im on the same boat but you gota understand just doin it raw you will go much faster but eventually you will get use to it
Durex – Performax condoms, i don’t need ‘em but they came (pun intended) in a variety pack that we got once and it took FOREVER, so, get those and good luck man