premature ejaculation problem?
Hi Guys!
I am literally desperate for help on this one.
All through foreplay I dont feel the urge to *** at all, but as soon as it goes in when I havent done it in a while I suddenly get an urge and slow right down and try to prevent it but nothing happens and then it happens again the next day!
it only really happens when i havent had it in a week or something (me and my girlfriend dont live together) or weirdly around lunch time/early evening.
Any help would be awesome
Thanks!
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premature ejaculation problem?
I have severe premature ejaculation. I have been married for nearly 2 month. i had problem with premature ejaculation. i usually comes within the first 5 minutes and it is leaving her unsatisfied. Is there anything i can do to ‘train’ me into lasting longer.
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rein July 10th
Premature Ejaculation is a serious problem for lots of men, but it can be effectively cured with very simple measures.
Mental control is just as important as physical control, so the first thing to do is to learn techniques to manage your mind before and during sex. Once you’ve done this, then physical control techniques become much easier, and you can basically last for as long as you want to.
Go here to find out how to last longer
http://ejaculationtraining6.com/
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Tommy Lee July 10th
This is my own experience about how to stop premature ejaculation, I’ve experienced premature ejaculation, I consult a doctor and the doctor giving the drug, but not cured, I am seeking information about how to stop premature ejaculation in the Internet, I finally bought Matt Gorden’s ebook on http://www.ejaculationtherapy.com, I follow all the instructions, within one week, my premature ejaculation was cured and able to delay ejaculation for 25 minutes now. I’m very happy because I can last longer in bed now.I can confidently recommended this ebook if you really want to stop premature ejaculation permanently.
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Cj T July 10th
2-3 mins is the norm, so if your lasting 5 your better than your average. try oral on her or fingers until she C*ms, then insurt it for your 5 min and she will love it!
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wackysahil July 10th
Exercise To Cure Premature Ejaculation
The Start Stop Technique : The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.
Pelvic floor muscles : Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.
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SaVee July 10th
Not good, Next Star! But rest assured, many men have the same problem as you and have learned to overcome premature ejaculation by learning a "controlling" method. Using sprays, numbing creams, certain condoms and some exercise programs usually are not permanent solutions that many guys try and may even make matters worse!
A kind of "re-wiring" of certain aspects to be able to stop premature ejaculation can easily be done through physical and mental control and hormonal regulation. Yes, re-training can be done and you will definitely be able to satisfy her longer leaving you more confident and having more self-esteem!!
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Nick July 10th
You can start practicing kegel exercises for men that will give you better control over your ejaculations and erections. They work by strengthening your PC muscle which in turn controls the sexual functions of the penis.
Though very effective, it is a fairly slow process that will take you about 5-8 weeks to show you results. It is a much better alternative to pills and foods and it is free of cost. You can read more about kegel exercises at a published article below.
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Premature Ejaculation problem?
My boyfriend was like a devil while we had sex, but recently…last 4 months he "pokes" me a few times (45 – 60 seconds) and he’s done. He’s trying to hold it in but he can’t and he doesn’t know why…
We used to have a great sex an hour – 1,5 , but then something has changed and he is having this problems…
It is kind of bugging both of us. What can we do?
Thank you,
Nikol
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Adolf Hitler July 10th
45 seconds… LOL
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Phoenix July 10th
It depends. If he had sex for that long, he was obviously holding it back. Holding it back for too long can actually DAMAGE the muscle that helps hold it back, so it might’ve been severely weakened.
It could also be a prostate problem. It’s the thing that makes a man gasm, so if something is up with that, he might just let lose early.
Stress and anxiety. Blood’s pumping like crazy, the body’s in a frenzy, and now it’s suppose to have sex? Well, it’s going to be done like superman because everything is being processed/done at the speed of light.
Lastly, many things can set a man off. If he’s ending it too early, then he should focus on his health a bit more. Having a healthy body means everything else is usually healthy… He can also practice kegel exercises to help himself hold it back.
In the end, he should consult a doctor. It’s not as embarrassing as it sounds. A lot of guys think it’s a very rare problem and think they’re inadequate/freaks because of it. Though that’s just insecurities talking. FORCE him to go to a doctor if need be.
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Ezekiel July 10th
tell your boyfriend that there is a way on how to control over the ejaculatory mechanism that will be able him to choose the exact time and place for his orgasm. its called the Kegel exercises.it will hep him exercise the muscles that control sexuality.
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Nick July 10th
It could be some sort of mental stress that is affecting him. Maybe it will go away with time. Also, he can try practicing some kegel exercises for men to make his PC muscle stronger that will allow him to have longer ejaculations and better erections. You can read an article on kegel exercises for men at the link below.
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Tommy Lee July 10th
This is my own experience about how to stop premature ejaculation, I’ve experienced premature ejaculation, I consult a doctor and the doctor giving the drug, but not cured, I am seeking information about how to stop premature ejaculation in the Internet, I finally bought Matt Gorden’s ebook on http://www.ejaculationtherapy.com, I follow all the instructions, within one week, my premature ejaculation was cured and able to delay ejaculation for 25 minutes now. I’m very happy because I can last longer in bed now.I can confidently recommended this ebook if you really want to stop premature ejaculation permanently.
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SaVee July 10th
Many men go through this and most times it’s a temporary thing. But, 4 months! – that’s pushing it. What could be causing it? Sometimes when a man knows what the cause of his PE is, he can remedy it by gaining control over the situation. Easier said then done, most times. Are you guys talking about it? Actually you should be. Initiate the convo if he hasn’t already and let him know that together you guys can get this straightened out — empathize and be gentle with him …. this situation can be very devastating to a man since they think that life revolves around their manhood! ; )
Here is a list of the majority of premature ejaculation causes:
"1- Genes- The fact is, your body is programmed to use sex for reproduction – and it wants to do that as efficiently as possible. The body wants to ensure your genes are carried down through the years, so it makes you climax quickly to try and achieve that.
2- Masturbation- Too much in your teen years may have "rewired" your body for a super quick response. Like it or not, excessive masturbation can cause Premature Ejaculation. Why? Simple, it teaches your body to focus on the wrong things… and when this happens, it’s all over.
3- Intensity- for some people, the arousal and stimulation of sex is just too much. That’s why it feels like there’s no way of stopping once you start… it really can be like a runaway train plummeting down the hill. It almost feels like everything’s completely out of your control doesn’t it?
4- Lack of body knowledge- most people have no idea how or why the ejaculatory process works, and this leads to encouraging Premature Ejaculation without knowing. Once you understand the process though, it doesn’t have to be so quick and out of control.
5- Sensitivity- Some of us guys just have bodies that are more sensitive than others. If you’ve ever felt completely overwhelmed and out of control during sex, this could be you. But don’t worry, it’s actually an advantage if this applies to you – and you’ll soon see why."
The bottom line is for him to learn to take control over his thoughts and how he responds to stimulation – you may try to seek out help with him.
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Premature Ejaculation Problem?
i am fourteen and i have had sex, i am happy with doing it underage and i don’t regret a thing so please don’t comment on my age.
the problem is that i suffer from premature ejaculation and i think the reason for it is that i used to masturbate a lot when i was younger, am i right in thinking that this could be the reason for it?
in my last relationship it didn’t bother my partner and she was fine with it although i am worried that next time the girl wont be as happy about it, and if she was, i still wouldn’t be. I last about 3minutes and its really embarrassing and it ruins it :/
is there anything i can do to stop this? or at least last longer? and preferably without buying medication and things to help. is there a method etc to help?
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Amy July 10th
hahahahahahahahaha, it’s cause you’re young and excited little guy. fail.
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Kirsty July 10th
1. No it’s not cause you used to masturbate a lot XD Tons of young boys "suffer" from this problem, it’s soooo common.
2. It will improve with age/experience/self control.
3. Wear a thicker condom, it numbs the sensation just slightly and makes you last longer.
4. If you want to please a girl concentrate on foreplay, and not just on the sex…. then she’ll like it
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Andrew clifftion July 10th
You remind me of the time when I was 14
I totally understand your situation. Since I’ve been through this before, let me share with you what I’ve done and it actually helped me gained quite a few minutes to my pleasure time.
1) Whenever you are nearing climax, hold just before the bottom of your penis head and give it a squeeze. That should stop the blood flow for a moment and diluting the sensation.
2) Truth be told, masturbation actually helps to gain more pleasure time. Do it correctly.
Go for it for 10 – 15 minutes. Keep your sexual tension high, just before the point of release. Maintain that tempo and hang in there for 10 minutes minimum!!
You’ll begin to see results in the long run my friend.I hope it helps. Feel free to contact me should you have any other questions.
I wish you all the best! In your pursuit of happiness
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Hermes July 10th
Jordann, honey –
Number one — you do NOT have premature ejaculation, I suspect rap songs convinced you that you do. Kinsey proved pretty conclusively that 70% of all males ejaculate within 2 minutes of penetration. Medical research indicates that the average when all males are averaged together is 3 to 4 minutes. So you are actually absolutely average and last longer than 70% of all males in attaining that.
No partner who is focused on you should care how long it takes, and if you realize its normal it shouldn’t ruin anything — it really is normal, and it has NOTHING TO DO WITH MASTURBATION. In fact, you last longer than you would if you didn’t masturbate a lot. Many doctors who treat real premature ejaculation prescribe (I kid you not) regular masturbation to help fix the problem.
If you are worried about not pleasuring your gf, engage in more complex foreplay — do oral on her, and manual, until she is orgasming — then penetrate and c*m as quickly as your body is ready. BOTH of you will always be happy with the sex that way.
BTW — congratulations on being yourself and being happy. I am gay and I started having sex when I was 13, and I too never regretted it and loved every time and every minute of it. I am very proud of you for being proud of yourself as a straight boi — good for you!!!
A final comment, as a gay man who is a lot older than you. I’ve been with a reasonable number of guys (under 20 but not by much) all friends or more over the years and had sex with them (many times each except for one when I was very young who had guilt problems, we only did it a half dozen times). Only 5 lasted more than 5 minutes, and at least 10 lasted a lot less than 3. I was always focused on their pleasure and it was just as wonderful in a minute, if that’s how long they lasted, as it was in 10 — and frankly, more than 20 is too many – and many women I know agree.)
I hope that all helps.
Kind thoughts,
Hermes
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Premature Ejaculation Problem?
so sometimes when me and my girl are fooling around and shes playing around with Big Jim and the twins i blow my load real quick.. one time it happened without her even touching it, i was just fingering her. Do i have premature ejaculation? and how do i fix this problem?
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RangersLeadTheWay March 4th
Sure sounds like premature ejaculation to me. I’m not a doctor, and don’t know of any medical treatments to help with it, but I know what I did when I had the same problem. If you know you’re girl is coming over to see you, and you’re pretty sure it’s going to lead to some intimate entertainment, masturbating a time or two before she shows up is a sure way to keep you soldiers from firing their guns too early.
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Bruce March 4th
Those are examples of premature ejaculation, but if you are able to last longer most of the time it is not a problem. If you are still young it is fairly common for the events you described to happen.
Learn to spot the signs of getting too close. You can stop or slow down the activity until the feeling subsides, then continue until you (and your partner) are ready to finish.
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Premature ejaculation problem?
my bf suffers from premature ejaculation. it’s killing me that he can only last several second. Been telling him to see doc, he refuses to go. any remedies for that? any answers would be really appreciated!
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t p March 4th
more foreplay jerk him off get him hard again does this help, him
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ohitscrusty March 4th
well…get him to see a doctor…or get a dildo..really he might just be to embarrassed to see a doctor..men have a pride issue like that..just sit him down and talk to him and tell him u think its whats best
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blip March 4th
He needs to masterbate slowly and when hes about to cum he should back off. Repeating this process over and over will train his little friend to go longer. Also I have heard if every time you pee, stoping mid stream, peeing and stopping also can help to last longer.
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LzT March 4th
Is it a physical thing or a mental thing? If it’s physical he just needs to reduce the sensitivity like in the movie American Pie. Use two condoms for instance. If it’s a mental thing it may be harder to get over, maybe you’re too hot
You can try doing other things that doesn’t involve actual intercourse for you and then end with the intercourse or you can get a cock-ring which sometimes helps him stay erect even after he orgasms.
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Milorad March 4th
Part of the problem is the pressure you’re applying.
Any guy who claims he hasn’t been through this is either very young, or a liar.
Its a vicious cycle – the more it happens, the worse it gets, and its often mostly psychological. Try making a deal with him that you absolutely won’t have intercourse for a week or two, instead just pleasure each other orally… that’ll take the pressure off for a while.
Make it clear that he’s the only one allowed to break out of the deal…. so that when he’s ready, and not beating himself up about it, he can jump your bones.
The last thing you want to do is push him to go see a doctor if he isn’t ready to do that. Male sexuality is extremely fragile, and there’s a hell of a lot of pressure to perform. Keep in mind that he’s likely going through this ONLY because he’s so desperate to please you.
If you take that pressure away, he’s far more likely to achieve his goal.
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Saahil March 4th
well regular practice can help him
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Ms Sharing of Life March 4th
Try to stop in between when having foreplay. Cool down when he going to jerk. This will help to last longer and hold back awhile…
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moondog247 March 4th
Grip it and stop it before he shoots. Let it relax and keep repeating. This method has been used for years. Go online or see a dr. if you need more help. good luck
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Snake March 4th
I had the same problem
I found that i got premature ejaculation from masturbating too much when i was young. They say that the way you masturbated when you were young was programmed into your subconscious.When your young you do it quickly and you do it a lot. When you masturbate you don’t do it for 10 to 15 min. you do it for like 2 minutes lol.This is what helped me get over it.
First thing is when he masturbates and believe me he does…
Tell him to take his time,when he comes close to ejaculating he should stop and rest a few seconds and continue.This helps a lot.Then theres foreplay.
The more horny you are the more open little miss vagina gets.This means that she wont be so tite and a tite vagina can cause pre ejac as well.Then theres sex.
Take it slow and i mean real slow.Don’t go in with guns blazing. Keep him relaxed.(It kinda helps if he thinks about nasty stuff.Like his grandma doing it or something like that).
Him being relaxed is important.That way he can concentrate on not releasing too quickly.
Get on top of him and take control. Go slow and stop sometimes to go down and kiss him.This will give him time to recover. Tell him that its not a race to the finish line.
Get him to listen to you. Remember this takes time and lots and lots of practice so don’t give up. He will start seeing the difference and get more control.Hope it helps
Mail me if you need more advice on this and tell me how things go
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Shawez S March 4th
he should eat cobre meat for sex power
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Amina F March 4th
yeah wear a condom
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Premature Ejaculation problem?
My penis does get fully erect before I orgasim its just that sometimes I can peak really early during intercourse. Im not sure what it is but Im 19 and Ive been going out with my girlfriend for about a year and 3 months. Neither of us has slept with anyone else other than each other before. We have our moments sometimes well have sex 2 or 3 times a week but mostly once once a month something like that. Sometimes I can go for 10 or 15 minutes you know the average other times I barely last 2. We always make sure that I orgasim once before intercourse during foreplay to try to make it last longer because normally I take longer to peak if I’ve already orgasimed once. I think maybe its the way my penis is built. Im only 5.75 in in length but my girth is around the same. The internet says this is above average girth. Is that true Maybe its our inexperience but she just seems really tight at times. Could it be that she is just that tight around me that the pressure causes to me to peak soone
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bradley84 January 18th
the technical term is that you have a "chode" no big deal. its just when your cock is as long as it is around. you can squeeze the base of your penis when you feel like your going to ejaculate. squeeze it hard enough so no semen leaks out and wait until it goes back down your shaft. continue that for as long as can. then when your ready, blow the load of yours. i no how you feel to. sometimes i can only last about 20 to 40 seconds before i have to orgasm. if it makes you feel any better, the shortest ive ever lasted was 10 seconds, so do feel to bad about it.
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Premature ejaculation problem?
Is there any safe external oinment for preventing Premature ejaculation and to increase timeing ?
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annie January 16th
None that i know of.Try taking a minute or two breather to extend the time.
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darldm1 January 16th
Yes there are numerous creams available. Their primary ingredient is a desensitizer. I would advise a trip to the doc to discuss the issue and to be sure there are no medical problems involved. In most cases it is a psychological problem (stress is a major cause of this) and resolves over time. Strangely enough the old joke about thinking about baseball has some basis in fact. Thinking of something else besides your own orgasm can help alleviate the problem.
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healer 2 January 16th
try sildenafil
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kevin January 16th
don’t think so
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zackbarrett January 16th
Over the counter desensitizing creams are readily available and do work, have tried them back when I had quick releases. Another thing to try is to masterbate an hour or two before you expect to have sex, and you should have a slower release the second time.
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prince July 10th
try wearing a condom during sex or buy some "delay cream/spray"i have tried both and that help’s to slow thing’s down a bit.
mbj July 10th
who cares, men don’t suffer from premature ejaculation, women do
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Hi Simon,
This is my own experience about how to stop premature ejaculation, I’ve experienced premature ejaculation, I consult a doctor and the doctor giving the drug, but not cured, I am seeking information about how to stop premature ejaculation in the Internet, I finally bought Matt Gorden’s ebook on http://www.ejaculationtherapy.com I follow all the instructions, within one week, my premature ejaculation was cured and able to delay ejaculation for 25 minutes now. I’m very happy because I can last longer in bed now.I can confidently recommended this ebook if you really want to stop premature ejaculation permanently.
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