Is there a way you can naturally stop premature ejaculation? I easily cum in my pants by simply seeing a girl.

11 Responses to Is there a way you can naturally stop premature ejaculation? I easily cum in my pants by simply seeing a girl.

1. chloe b says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   This Extreme Sensitivity on the head of your penis causes the ejaculatory mechanism, inside your body, to go into "spasms". It’s these spasms that cause the overpowering Urge to Ejaculate. The head of your penis becomes so sensitive and the urge is so strong that you ejaculate immediately.
   If you slow down the production of excess hormone – you slow down the ejaculation.
   Faced with involuntary ejaculation, most men try to distract themselves during intercourse, believing that by thinking about other things, they can trick themselves into lasting longer. Usually, that only makes things worse.

   Don’t tune out your body. TUNE INTO IT. You need to become more familiar with your different levels of sexual arousal. You also need to recognize how you feel as you approach your point of ejaculatory inevitability, the "point of no return." Once you recognize how you feel close to your point of no return, it’s not difficult to make small sexual adjustments that allow you to remain highly aroused without ejaculating.

   Sexual arousal is a four-phase process. In the Excitement Phase, breathing deepens and erection begins. In the Plateau Stage, erection becomes full and you feel highly aroused. When arousal builds to a certain point, the next phase occurs, Orgasm with Ejaculation. Then during the Resolution Phase, breathing returns to normal and erection subsides. The key to ejaculatory control is to extend the Plateau Phase, to maintain arousal without triggering Orgasm and Ejaculation.

   To learn ejaculatory control:

   * Don’t use drugs or alcohol. They’re distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
   * Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach — but not arrive at — their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
   * Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the "relaxation" involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It’s the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality — and last longer.
   * Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
   * Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn’t take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
   Then move on to masturbation with a lubricated hand. Use saliva, vegetable oil, or a commercial sexual lubricant. For most people, lubricants increase the sensual intensity of erotic fondling. Follow the same program: Masturbate until you approach your point of no return, then back off. Repeat this several times over several sessions.
   * Once you have good control during masturbation, and appreciate whole-body sensuality, and feel comfortable breathing deeply during lovemaking, then you’re ready for the couples program — if you’re in a couple. The couple approach is called the "Stop-Start Technique." First, arrange "stop" and "start" signals with your lover, for example, a light pinch or tap, or a tug on an ear.
   Then, your lover strokes your penis by hand as you lie still. When you approach your point of no return, give the "stop" signal. Your lover immediately stops stroking you and simply holds your penis gently, as you continue to breathe deeply and pays close attention to the sensations you’re feeling. When you no longer feels close to ejaculation, gives the "start" signal, and your lover begins stroking you again. How many stops and starts should you do? A half-dozen over a 15-minute period works well for most couples. Do what feels comfortable for you.

   With stop-start, the focus is on the man. He’s the one learning the new skill. But don’t forget the woman’s sensual needs. As part of each practice session, she might guide your hand over her to show you what she likes.

   Once you’ve gained good ejaculatory control with your lover’s hand, try the same stop-start procedure with oral caresses. Again, you begin by lying still.

   Once you’ve gained good control orally, feel free to start moving. You’re making love again — but now you have ejaculatory control. Congratulations.

   Here are some other suggestions for lasting longer:

   In fact, there’s NO product, exercise, or technique that can stop severe premature ejaculation when used alone. NONE! Severe premature ejaculation is an extremely complex condition the causes of premature ejaculation are both physical and psychological. To cure premature ejaculation requires a combination of products that simultaneously attack and eliminate each cause. Only Last-Longer has a combination of products strong enough to eliminate ALL aspects of both the physical and psychological causes of premature ejaculation.
   Quite often, when a man gains good ejaculatory control, he suddenly becomes much more interested in sex. And even if he doesn’t, it might be nicer for both of you if he lasted longer.
2. Afriend says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   If you prefer the natural way this site will help

   http://www.treatment-premature-ejaculation.com
3. ticleve1 says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   You’re young and eager. Nothing wrong with that. You need to be doing things to take your mind off your dick. Sports, biking, running, hiking, anything vigorous. Once you get a better balanced life you’ll be fine.
   I checked out the website recommended by "Afriend" and I think it’s written by Chinese children.
4. serial_kisser says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   In stead of trying to train your penis you need to train your mind for what you really want. Don’t be a rubbing monster, give it a break sometimes. Put in more love, and think of lovely things in place of putting all the focus on your over-worked penis. And believe me your English has nothing to do with your sexual activity.
5. motherof fourkids says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   Learning self-control during masturbation will help with your problems. When masturbating, try the start/stop method. When you feel yourself getting close, slow down and think of non-sexual things in order to gain control. Then start back up normal pace until you get close again and repeat the process. Be careful though, while this can strengthen your orgasm, doing it for long periods at a time can cause pain in your "balls".

   I bet the guy above me has carpal-tunnel.
6. HAMIDON K says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   U lucky guy! I need at least 30 mintutes of hard masturbation before I explode!
7. Æ says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   First, learn ENGLISH.

   Second, you’re just going through puberty it will slow down.
8. bigjohn B says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   I used to think of the ugliest woman I knew. It seemed to work out well. By the way that also worked for regular sex, if you want to delay. But at times you have passed the point of no return.
9. Alexander S says:

   January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

   Stop mastrubating for a bit

   see the difference
10. Vanessa says:

    January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

    haha thats a good thing no? hey u can be a pornstar now =]
11. byron101540 says:

    January 18, 2010 at 5:21 am

    Mike be you jack off too much, and you have 0 control left