Okay I m gonna get alot of "thumbs down" on this one..but it is the truth…
Masterbate before you go to see her or have any foreplay..it will take awhile for you to recover and get the blood circulating again…but will give you a couple more minutes

well if its awkward doing it, then its probably not right for you. You should wait until you are both ready. Use protetion, and stay safe ! (:

she wants sex don’t back down from it shes horny your horny nice way to make another human

ohhh, damn. That really sucks, i feel very sorry for you my friend.

Alright bro heres what you do

Whack it before hand, about 1/2 hour to 1 hour before hand.
Wear a condom
Don’t go too fast. Instead, focus on pleasing her (touching her clit etc). When it gets down to poundin time, take your mind off of it. Think about something completely unattractive.

masturbate, it’ll get you to last longer cuz you’ll be more used to it

lmao poor guy !!! ok maybe rub one out b4 you go there . n who cares if u came fast . wait 2 mins n go again . act like its normal cuz in ur case it is lol n keep moving . or maybe try different postions in the middle of having sex if u get it in there first lol … . or have her blow u first then fuck !! basiclly get read of the first nut n keep moving .. n dont be a pussy . have confidence !!! thats all it is about .

Joe-

Premature ejaculation is a common issue amongst men. I don’t know your age, so I can’t tell you if it is Erectile Dysfunction.

Maybe talk to your doctor about it, and he can tell you what you can do.

I had that problem when I first had sex. It is natural if you haven’t had many sexual partners or had much sex to begin with. I think you can help yourself by talking to her, and saying that you are very sexually attracted, and are worried about coming, and maybe she can slow things down, or work with you.

I think she will understand.

If not, she will see that and probably you can talk about it, I also encourage taking a deep breath before seeing her, engage in kissing, and foreplay to prepare yourself.

Best of luck to you,
nick

This was being talked about on the radio this morning!
Some guys called in and said to masturbate first and that will help you last. Others said they’ve tried pills, and a lot of guys suggested thinking of something relatively boring to make it last. There is also some sort of condom that has an anesthetic inside of it that somehow helps the guy last (not sure about how that works, but the guys confirmed it!), and another way was to wear two condoms. If you do that and you don’t want your girl pregnant, make sure she’s on some form of birth control because two condoms = more friction, and can cause both to break more easily than just wearing one.
Good luck!

edit: Oh yeah, and one guy called in and said that when he starts getting too close too soon, he uhm.."removes" himself, then does something to pleasure her so his body can calm down a bit and hers can get more worked up before they continue.

ever hear the expression "practise makes perfect" ? well that definatley applies in this situation. you’ll gain more control and will be able to keep it going longer. if you have a mental block about it try and explain that to your girlfriend. she will understand if she if you friend aswell as yor girlfriend.
and she will help you overcum (get it) this block in your head. try thinking to yourself that its not for you but for her and that should give you some fighting spririt.

You’re going in with a defeated attitude for starters. You probably think that intercourse is the only form of sexual pleasure. Before you have her or let her go grabbing it why don’t you try giving her some head, make her cum then maybe some of the pressure will be of you.

Frankly I don’t think you’re ready to be doing that yet.
Maybe you should practice alone and get to know how that thing works a little better.