So the first time I had sex, it was really awkward. I lasted like 10 seconds maybe. The second time I lasted about 30 seconds. After that the girl that I was seeing stopped having sex with me and we haven’t done it for maybe 4 months. Now today I came over in the morning and we ended up having sex..well not exactly.
She said shes afraid of doing it with me cause I get really nervous and it makes things awkward but i convinced her otherwise. I took a deep breath and kept my cool. We were laughing and giggling through the undressing part. She then reaches her hand down my pants and starts rubbing my penis. She wasn’t aggressive at all, maybe she stroked it once and then it happened…I came…
I grabbed her and pulled her hand away and said I can’t do this. I didn’t want to tell her that I came in my pants so I just said I was way too nervous which want really true.
I feel like I cant have sex with her cause I always disappoint. I’m literally afraid to do it now. I think about it and I want to do it but I’m just scared. We’re probably not gonna do it anymore because its just awkward.
I don’t know what to do.
I’m 22 years old if it helps.
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OK ok calm down, this happens to alot of ppl! 1st, if you do or dont eat pussy, i would start that would help her get hers quicker. then try the double condom trick, this will stop the feeling for longer. Then i would most defiantly BEAT OFF b4 yall have sex again, now you would say why would i beat off if im gonna go have sex??? Its ez bcuz for any man that 1st nutt(orgasm) will come fast no matter what you do to stop it! & aren’t you calm & relaxed after you cum? that will help in your performance & over all longevity.
So 1: Calm Down & Man Up
2: make her feel gooood
3: double your condoms
4: let that pre-nutt out b4 you actually start to fuck
The most i can tell with saying all this is STAY CALM, dont let your girl &/or her pussy become this Greek monster that you are to afraid to slay, its only sex so learn it, love it & live it.
PnL
So basically.. you could just masturbate before hand and then you wouldn’t be so sensitive to it when the time comes to actually have sex with your girlfriend.
Ok first of all, you should talk to her and tell her what the problem is. If she actually likes you she will understand, also let her know that there is plenty of solutions to this problem these days. Go to your doctor, urologist or pharmacist and talk to one of them and see what they recommend for premature ejaculation. There’s pills (I don’t know if you have those "want longer lasting sex" billboards where you are) and plenty of techniques and so on that can help, so don’t stress about it. Talk it out, and find a solution, and you will be fine.
Stop being such a panzy and just ram it in. Who cares if you come so quick? Tell her you’re soooo good at it that you can get it done in no time. It’s her fault anyway cause her pussy is too tight.
you have to keep having sex, you just started doing it which feel really good so its gonna be fast, but just keep doing it, it will increase your stamina
10 seconds..