Second, to help delay ejaculation, when you feel yourself getting close to orgasm, gently squeeze the head of your penis. Use only enough pressure to where you feel the blood going out of the head, back into the shaft. Then release. If you feel any pain at all, even a tiny bit, you’ve squeezed too hard. The head may be just a bit smaller, but it will quickly get back to the size it usually gets, when you have an erection. This has the desired effect of causing the urge to ejaculate, to subside, temporarily, thus delaying the orgasm until you’re ready.

I’m not a physician, and I do not present myself as one. On your next doctor visit, ask about the pelvic muscle to which you refer. It is also important that you, and men your age, learn how to do a testicular exam, and do it regularly. If you have masturbated more than once or twice a day, for several years, you should discuss this with your physician. Men masturbate because of the pleasure that comes with the orgasm, and so they try to get to the point of orgasm as quickly as possible. That might have negative effects, later in life. When one strives, again and again and again, to bring oneself to orgasm as quickly as possible, then one’s brain might reprogram itself to respond to the stimuli associated with masturbation, quicker than one would like. For example, if a husband is with his wife, and they wish to become parents, premature ejaculation may hinder the ability of a husband to impregnate his wife. Again, I am not a physician, and that should not be taken as medical advice in any way, shape or form. Discuss all medical issues and concerns with a licensed physician.

Do not waste time or money on sprays, vitamins, herbs, dietary supplements or drugs. This is a learning problem and these things will not help you learn to control ejaculation any more than they can help you to learn to speak another language.

There are a lot of high-priced programs advertised online but all you need is an inexpensive little book written by a doctor and sex therapist that has been used successfully for more than 32 years.

It is called "Lasting Longer: The Treatment Program for Premature Ejaculation" by Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D. For more information just google the author’s name: Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D.

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One, the mental aspect. A man doesn’t take the time to relax and immerse himself in the situation and constantly thinks (worries) about cumming. Result? He ends up cumming before he wanted to.

Two, the physical aspect. A man rushes through his masturbatory sessions, essentially training his body to accomplish the sex act quickly. This is also complicated by men who perform "kegels" without performing "reverse kegels". The constant tightening of the PC muscle presses on the prostate, causing a man to ejaculate quicker than he wishes.

To fix the mental part, work on your breathing. Shallow, hyper breathing and tensing up will both make you ejaculate quicker; so slow your breathing down and relax as much possible.

To fix the physical part, try reverse Kegels. Basically it is the muscles used when you push your urine out (but focus the effort on your penis – do NOT try and push your anus out too, as in trying to defecate; this is wrong); by doing this, you are pushing blood into your penis and taking pressure off the prostate, which makes you less likely to ejaculate prematurely.